What you should know if you´re a guest*

Men

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  1 Men have it easier than women because their options are always more limited. The ideal outfit is a suit, possibly navy blue, black or dark gray, with a solid color shirt. The tie is the item you can play around with the most. Choose a color that suits you and you’re ready!
  2 If you are a groomsman and the groom is wearing a tuxedo, it is correct for you to do the same. You don’t need to buy one. There are many stores that specialize in renting them.
  3 You should not take your jacket off at any time, especially for dinner, it is improper. The only time that you may remove it is when you hit the dance floor.
  

Give your jacket a hint of color with
your tie.

Women

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  1 If it is a religious ceremony try not to enter the place of worhsip showing your bare shoulders or a deep neckline. Cover up with a shawl, and you can be more revealing at the reception.
  2 Remember that the color white and its variations (beige, off white, nudes…) are reserved for the bride: wearing them would be taking away from her role. The couple might ask you to wear this color, which is typical for beach weddings. If this is the case, always do as the couple says.
  3 Hats are a classic complement, but there are also rules when referring to them. If the wedding takes place at night, forget them! They should only be worn for ceremonies that are held during the day or early afternoon. If it is excessively big, try not to sit in the front rows at church since you will block the guests’ view. You should always buy the hats that are most comfortable.
  4 A wedding is a party at night which is why you should avoid deep necklines or short dresses.
  

Advice

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  1 Confirm your attendance as soon as possible so the couple can organize everything with enough time. And of course, let it be known, if for any reason you are unable to attend at the last minute. One of the most complicated things is organizing seating arrangements, and last minute absences are hard to amend.
  2 The couple’s gift will depend on many things, but try for it to be in accordance with the price covered for your meal.
  3 Even if you weren’t invited to the engagement party (only because it is entirely a family affair) it is a nice touch to send flowers to the bride’s house. You can find bouquets for all budgets in the Weddingclick flower section.
  4 You must be punctual
  5 Remember it is their day and their wishes must be respected.
  6 Everyone, even the most clumsy, must dance with the bride, or at least try to.